“The single story creates stereotypes, and the problem with stereotypes is not that they are untrue, but that they are incomplete. They make one story become the only story.”
When I first started to explore my submission with Sir I had very fixed ideas of how that should look.
It has been almost six years and I have taken so many twists and turns in this kinky world that I sometimes get a little confused. I don’t fit what I initially believed a submissive would look like, those stereotypes are long since outgrown.
I have a strength of character and directness that is often mistaken for a Dominant streak. (With a capital D) And I have, over the years, picked up certain skills. So while, to the outside world, I may look more D than s, when I am under His care the submission engulfs me and I find calm and an inner peace that quiets my mind and energises my soul. So while I may have dominant traits I am very much his submissive.
With a little flexibility I am painting a richer picture with my life than if I were to fit the mould.