I know, I know, you’ve seen this arm binder before.
At the start of the month I shared The Vaux in this tie. I would apologise for over sharing armbinders, but in this case I wanted to tell you about quick and dirty rope.
As you may have noticed, I like to keep things simple when I tie. It is far more enjoyable to me when I can restrain without hurting my brain! I am also, generally, short on time. With both of these things in mind the traditional martial art of Hojōjutsu seems to fit my preferences quite nicely.
Historically used to capture and restrain prisoners with thin cords and minimal wraps, the focus wasn’t on the safety and wellbeing of the bound. Fortunately for my wonderful friends who indulge my rigging desires, I started to learn this technique at a local peer rope session, under the watchful tutoring of Angel. She ensured that those in her session understood the difference between dangerous criminals and consenting volunteers though; extra wraps, careful positioning and not being too rough are all important factors in playtime.
SWL and I tie may together, but our friendship is purely platonic.
Though I am aware our platonic may well appear sexual to onlookers, what with all the naked flesh! I love how maleable she is to my ideas, and how patient she is when the working ends don’t whip her. (She’s also a masochist.) However, as with all relationships there are boundaries and we play within those. While I love tying her, in fact all of my bunny friends, the process and connection are what I enjoy. I don’t associate my rigging with sex. And I like that.
But there is something quite seductive about being able to capture and bind a (willing) victim, quickly and efficiently.
Or with the shoe on the other foot… being caught and restrained.
In my erotic daydreams Sir captures me like this. Kneeling on me he deftly restricts my movement before using me for his pleasure. I’ve mentioned before that he ties for control, and the thought of this tie, in that way, by him makes me go Mmmmm- squelch 😉