1. Did leave your last love for some one else or no one else? I haven't ever left a lover for someone else. Unless you count me leaving P for myself and my children... If I have ended a love affair it has been for a reason between myself and the other person involved, either... Continue Reading →
There is something that I find really puzzling. Something we will all do at some point, or so I'm told. Dating! I'm a 36-year-old woman and, as far as I can work out, I've been on 5 dates. Actual, official, proper dates. Meets and socials, easy peasy. I've done those by the (cough-cough) dozen... But... Continue Reading →
I still find it astonishing, even after 21 years. You would imagine that it would get easier, and in many ways it has. I can now celebrate the many times we enjoyed, and I can look back with joy in my heart rather than total devastation and, more often than not, anger. Anger with you... Continue Reading →
There was a time when I couldn't stand touch. As a child I was always loved, my family were close-knit and always there for me, no matter what. But it was never shown in a tactile way. Love was shown through actions rather than hugs and kisses. My adolescence saw me exploring sex in all... Continue Reading →
1. Do you like where you live or do you wish you could move? I love where I live! There are things about the property that I am working on, but all homes have compromises. It is the area that I am in love with. When I find myself thinking how lucky I am to... Continue Reading →
The prompt for today was pretty tricky. I wasn't sure how a song could make me want to fall in love. My ex husband's family never quite hit the mark of family, even though we were closely linked for over 12 years. The thought of having in-laws again is a bit of a difficult idea... Continue Reading →
Tim Minchin is an absolute genius who can have me laughing until the tears roll down my cheeks, but he always makes me think. If you really loved me is no exception... I laugh because it is true! I would be upset if my future partner didn't want to video me while I pee. And I have... Continue Reading →
This weeks Food for thought Friday prompt has struck a chord with me. After such a wonderful birthday last week, full of kinky goodness and family time, I have been pondering what else I am grateful for. The UK may not celebrate Thanksgiving but it certainly doesn't hurt to think about the question posed this... Continue Reading →
With my move imminent, and M and I back on speaking terms it was time to get ready for a new beginning. P rolled over and accepted the move when I told him the plan, I guess he was effectively let off the hook as far as parenting went. The boys didn't take any convincing... Continue Reading →
Tricky questions for this weeks TMI Tuesday. I guess that is the point, and maybe the fun? 1. Is falling in love effortless? I don't honestly know if falling in love is effortless. For me love seems to be a series of ways to torture myself. Perhaps the falling in love is effortless, but I have... Continue Reading →
I encased my feet in wax so as to stop them from running away. Actually that's not entirely true. My heart is not encased in stone. It beats on even when it feels like it is forever broken. Love can hurt, but not loving hurts even more. And it would take more than a little... Continue Reading →
Christmas is supposed to be a time of peace, love and joy. 2016 was not one that I would want to repeat.
The Inside My Head tag was created a few months back, and I wanted to share the contents of mine today.