Going Solo With Butt Stuff

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I sent CC the Bestvibe Remote Control 9 Vibration Thrusting Triangle Ring Prostate Massager in exchange for a fair and honest review. Her journey through testing was not a smooth one, butt she is resourceful and has definitely put this product through it’s paces by going solo. Read on to find out about her experiences in the latest review for Bestvibe.

First impressions out of the box.

As with most items from Best Vibe, This item is shipped in a well-packaged,  simple plain black box. Nothing on the outside to show that it is an adult toy. Inside is the toy, a magnetic USB charger cable, and a remote. All are nestled into the normal plastic moulded shell as is normal for many of these types of toys.

Highlights

Features, taken from the website:

• Elevate your connection with 9 vibration modes, each delivering distinctive pleasure
• Elevate your pleasure with distinct thrusting mode for your ultimate satisfaction
• Simplify your life with a remote that works with multiple devices
• Seamless Bluetooth App Control with a tap, making your sex simpler and more efficient
• Elevate your intimate play in water settings with our IPX6 waterproof product.
• Size: 5.94 x 6.50 x 1.37 inch

The toy has a ridged dildo part connected to one of the triangle cock rings. A cock ring very similar to the one I reviewed here. (Barefoot note: If you’d like one on it’s own add to your basket and use the code BAREFOOT for it to be taken off at checkout.)

Charging.

The charging cable is a USB magnetic type. I put this on charge while I went about my day.

I didn’t have a session planned for a few days, which allowed me to become familiar with the different functions. As it happened a few things changed and life got in the way so I had this toy for a while before I found a willing test subject. Anal play isn’t for all, so I have to respect the limits my playthings put on me.

However, the time gave me a chance to explore linking the toy with the app, “LOVE SPOUSE”. I downloaded mine from the Play Store and found it very easy to use and set up. I am familiar with the Lovense app so this might have helped.

There is a QR code in the instructions to scan to connect to the app.

While the layout is quite different to my often used app, there is the similar classic mode.

Plus there is the game mode where you can play a game and enjoy the sensations. In this case, the fruit match game. When you match they get bigger, and each match makes the toy vibrate. And then there is my favourite, watching videos while also using the modes. I experimented with watching my own clips from my clips4sale, but you could watch any clip you have downloaded to your phone.

As usual, I played around with the buttons becoming familiar with the button combination to increase the pressure and intensity of the vibrations. Simply press hold to turn it on, and then a single press to increase the vibration pattern in single steps. The standard remote works the same, just with 3 buttons. Hold the on button to start then each button controls the thrust or the vibration. Again hold for 3 seconds then each press increases the pattern.

The session.

This session was planned for my toy (a submissive) he was interested in trying it out while being edged. I covered the insertable part with a condom and appropriate lube for anal.

And proceeded slowly. Teasing, stretching and playing with Toy. He requested to insert the thrusting butt plug solo, without my assistance, as he is new to anal play. However, he struggled. And as he struggled he tensed up. Not wishing to stress him further we abandoned this and carried on with our other plans.

The butt toy was cleaned up after the session, with toy cleaner and warm soapy water. It was then left to dry in the bathroom on a clean towel, before being packed away to await another try.

I am not one to be beaten though, so…

One day last week after Barefoot reminded me I had this review pending I jokingly stated I would have to use it myself. And that got me thinking.

I dug the box out and another new to me toy, a thrusting very real-looking cock dildo with balls. I put the cock ring part on the dildo and played around with the positioning. Ummmm, it looked possible! I then decided I would have a solo date night that weekend and I might even put out some butt stuff if I treat myself right. I am, after all, no novice to anal, it has become my norm in recent years.

Soon the night came, I’d be going solo with a prostate massager.

Minus the prostate, but with all sorts of other fun buttons to press. I eagerly settled down with condoms and lube. A towel folded under me to spare my mattress.

I warmed up as it were with some gentle teasing of my self and my labia then apply lube to my anus. Slowly stretching myself ready once I was ready I began to insert the toy. This took a little bit of wriggling to get the right angle for both the butt toy and the dildo.

I like to tease and take my time so I opened the app on the phone having ensured that the toy was already turned on. It wasn’t fully inserted, but that is part of the tease. I initially chose the first pattern of gentle vibrations.

While the prostate massager teased me I decided to insert the dildo into my waiting pussy.

I am over 55 and menopausal, so use liquid silk personal lube. (Not sponsored, but the one I find best for my needs.) [Barefoot note: Bestvibe also do a water-based lube which I’ve reviewed here. You can find it on the Bestvibe site here.]

With some wriggling and adjusted the folds of the towel, I managed to insert both toys and hold the butt toy inside.

WOW, they both felt amazing. The combination of both toys made me feel really full and hit the G spot from both sides, I have to say I was almost climaxing from the pressure alone.

But I managed to hold off, phew!

Then ran through some of the patterns for science …

I have to say I enjoyed the thrusting part of the butt plug more than the vibrations.

It was a genuine surprise as to how much it felt like I was experiencing a gentle butt fuck. The movement against the other dildo on the other side felt intense. In a fantastic way. I can only begin to imagine how this would feel if you have a prostate and enjoy it being massaged.

The app and the connections worked very well. I’ve had issues with Bluetooth in the past, being a larger-bodied person, but this worked great. I can imagine playing with a partner and them being in charge of the app and amounts of pleasure. I was soon

Clean up.

I can imagine the ridges designed to feel good would also hold on to material as it works, using a condom helps make clean-up easier. I used antibac soap and a good toy cleaner spray, then left it to air dry completely before putting it away.

Overall thoughts.

I love this toy. It is now in my own personal toy box. While it may not be the ideal first anal toy, I would recommend it for butt play – solo or partnered. It is simple and effective to use, with the bonus addition of Bluetooth app and a remote. Thank you Barefoot and Bestvibe for letting me use this toy in exchange for an honest and fair review.

If you’d like to get your hands on the Bestvibe Remote Control 9 Vibration Thrusting Triangle Ring Prostate Massager it is available for £39.99 at time of publishing. As I mentioned above, if you add the triangle cock ring to your basket and enter code BAREFOOT you will receive a cock ring for free. Not that you need it with the prostate massager, but it’s nice to have options when you don’t wish to be impaled on a thrusting butt plug.