Being chief troublemaker for myself and others comes with its own challenges. Often around other people not showing up in the way that they promise. Once is bad luck, twice is unfortunate. Three times in one day though… That could knock a girl’s confidence! What am I talking about? Being let down by playmates, past, present or potential. I’d better tell you what happened, or not… I find it an odd combination of frustrating and amusing.
So, on Thursday I was due to meet a lady for a social.
She’d opened communication and at her request we’d planned a social. With a nice cup of tea in the sunshine in store, I drove to meet her in her local bar. However, she didn’t show up and was steadfastly not online. It’s ok though, these things happen, especially on swinging sites. I’m told it’s not just me that has their time wasted by fellow fabswingers members, nor is it my first experience of this happening. I did make the most of my opportunity to sit in the sunshine drinking tea, a whole hour with no distractions. There are silver linings everywhere! I understand nerves happen, but if this is you arranging a meet and change your mind at the last minute, just let the other person know!
I’d also had old playmates contact me on Monday.
They were asking if I had any tasks that they could help with. As it happens I am working on something so told them about it and they were both really excited. They had initially suggested Friday and I was excited to play, but while I sat in the sunshine on Thursday I sent a message asking if they would prefer my place or theirs. No answer came the stern reply. Again, no problem on my part, but these are friends I’ve known for years so perhaps some kind of message would have been polite?
And then, third time’s the charm… A lady I’ve been trying to meet with since October messaged at lunchtime to say that she was free Thursday evening. Would I like a visitor that night? Well, what’s a girl to do… Naturally I replied and told her that it would be so nice to finally meet her. So, once my children were in bed I slipped into something my sexy and popped the kettle on. Ten minutes later she messaged to say she’d taken a nap earlier and was now feeling all groggy and wouldn’t be coming.
It’s a good job I have a sense of humour. Life has a funny way of giving us what we need, and an early night was definitely in store. After the nervous energy building up all day I suddenly crashed, overwhelmed with tiredness.
However, before I turned in I decided to make the most of myself as a play partner and got back to being chief troublemaker for myself! Which included taking some pictures in my new body stocking. One of which I’m sharing for the second week of the new look Boobday, as well as Sinful Sunday.
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