Last year I had one shoot. Just one. This might seem like a disappointing number, especially when you consider the previous year. But when that one shoot is with your friend who just happens to be a photographer that you create magic with, then it isn’t a hardship at all. Plus, I don’t think I’ve met many togs I’d allow/encourage to place berries on my bottom.
I feel strongly that if I can’t place the prop it won’t be going on me.
A sentiment that has caused upset with a few photographers that have wanted to work with me. But that’s ok, I’m only responsible for me, not their desires. And the vast majority of togs are respectful of levels and boundaries, which explains why I am open to stretching to things like having berries placed on my bottom. I maintain control over who touches my body, how it is shown in photos, and (as far as possible) where it is shown. Obviously, when images are out on the internet I lose the full control over them. Something I would caution anyone to be prepared for.
On the subject of my professional boundaries, I don’t shoot open leg.
What I have always preferred is the hint at erotic. I respond much better to a tease of what’s in store, a glimpse at the fun parts, and so this is my preference for sharing here.
Again, this is something that can make togs cancel shoots. Just because I’m a kinky lady doesn’t mean you’ll get to immortalise me in all my glory! No, if I try it I won’t wish I’d been doing it all along. In fact, I have tried it, with a trusted tog as well as with lovers and with myself. While I am proud of those pictures I don’t often feel the need to share my cunt with you all here. Well, not often anyway!
I love the way Stu angled this shot.
He did some straight down the body and they were lovely, but this one with its angles is my favourite form this set. And the way my labia are just peeking out from the gap between my buttocks and my thighs. Soft, plump, full.
Just like berries adorning my bottom, but probably even riper, more juicy.
Being able to manage and maintain my boundaries is something that I’m immensely proud of. It’s also something that people don’t expect. Apparently I look like butter wouldn’t melt, much less that I’d stand up for myself. And so I’m celebrating that for my February PhotoFest theme.
Thank you for joining me for February PhotoFest 2023. This is my fourth time joining the month long celebration of erotic and sensual photography. If you’re enjoying it please do go and check out the previous years: 2019 was an incomplete month. I skipped 2020 due to not blogging at the time but 2021 was a joy to plan and complete, in spite of lockdowns. 2022 was a little more relaxed behind the scenes, but jam packed with pictures and memories I love.
From the story of how the barefoot sub became the woman she is today, to toy reviews, with a hefty dose of contemplation, a sprinkling of erotica and a LOT of nudity in between, you can be sure to find something to tickle your fancy at A Leap Of Faith.