“Just” a basic black bra.

Late last spring I was fitted for a bra for the first time since my teens. As soon as I knew I had a size I quickly fell in love with lingerie and soon acquired a variety of lovely underwear. The black bra I'm wearing in this picture is the first purchase, the one I made off... Continue Reading →

Inquiring minds

1. Did leave your last love for some one else or no one else? I haven't ever left a lover for someone else. Unless you count me leaving P for myself and my children... If I have ended a love affair it has been for a reason between myself and the other person involved, either... Continue Reading →

How can I tell you to stop?

  Stop is not a word I ever want to say during a scene, but having the ability to communicate that need is vital for me. I have been in a number of sticky situations where I haven't negotiated carefully, and safewords have been an unknown. In those cases I was always left unfulfilled. I had... Continue Reading →

Feeling Friable

Friable: (adj.) easily broken into pieces or reduced to nothing. When I was 14 I had a grumbling appendix. The doctors wouldn't remove it because they didn't see it as an emergency, but they wouldn't let me do sports, just in case I sustained a blow and became an urgent case. While I waited for... Continue Reading →

Eroticon 2019: My Ten things

From one thing, know ten thousand things. Ok, so Eroticon is my one thing, and my brain has been filled with ten thousand other things. When I found this quote for my title I initially intended it as a tongue in cheek reference to how full my brain is following the conference. However, in an effort to narrow it down to the top ten things I learnt, it has become clear that I wasn't far off. No matter, I shall break it down as best I can.

The dance we must do

There is something that I find really puzzling. Something we will all do at some point, or so I'm told. Dating! I'm a 36-year-old woman and, as far as I can work out, I've been on 5 dates. Actual, official, proper dates. Meets and socials, easy peasy. I've done those by the (cough-cough) dozen... But... Continue Reading →

CAN’T DO IT!

My brain was screaming loudly, though my mouth remained clamped shut. Silent. Staring at the blank screen in front of me I had been counting down the hours until my deadline. That had now passed, words for the extension request almost failing me too. It was the worst case of block I have ever experienced... Continue Reading →

Balls, beautiful balls…

Balls are one of my favourite parts of a man! There, I said it. They aren't quite as much of a turn on as strong forearms when you wrap them around me when I am feeling fragile and vulnerable, or send me into reverie like your hands do over a cup of coffee, and they... Continue Reading →

Acceptance for April

It seems that April is here, and so is the April A2Z blogging challenge. I saw others completing this last year and wished I'd known about it sooner, vowing to join in with the month long meme this year. Unsurprisingly I had completely forgotten about it! But then I saw a scattering of posts yesterday, and... Continue Reading →

Peeking sinfully

  I've just clicked submit on my penultimate essay for the module and realised I still have time to share some mischief for sinful sunday. This picture definitely reflects the way I feel this evening. Like I am peeking out of the shadows and feeling playful. Good luck world! Click the lips to see what other... Continue Reading →

Nothing beats a great smile.

Recent explorations found me wearing a big smile at a busy spot, which was unusually quiet. Though it was one of the scavenger hunt locations which seems like it should be so easy I keep seeing graffiti at the wrong time. . Either I'm with my children, there are too many people about or I... Continue Reading →

An ebb and flow of interest and energy

Sex, when everything "works" is fantastic. Sadly however, even when the mind is willing, our bodies can let us down. Stress, tiredness, illness, having the cat jump on the bed as you are approaching climax (or is that one just me?) can all sometimes cause things to go awry and for the best and naughtiest... Continue Reading →

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Photo courtesy of A Dissolute Life Means Welcome to Elust 116– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #117? Start with the rules, come... Continue Reading →

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