Elust 165 – September 2023

Every month the new edition seems to come round sooner than the month before. Elust 165 for September is no different. Not that I mind. I always seem to be so busy, so it’s a great excuse to grab a cup of tea, sit back and relax awhile. Without further pause, let’s do that!

Image courtesy of Mistress Andrómeda X.

Welcome to Elust 165

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust. Congratulations to the barefoot sub, winner of the Elust contest for August. I hope you enjoy your £50 GBP voucher for Regulation.



Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Breaking Chains: Reimagining BDSM Roles If you’re fed up with feeling like you have to assume a role but unsure where to start this is the post for you.

Erotic Fiction

Fantasies Erotica, showers and anal… what’s not to love.

Coffee Fancy a little light (and very sexy) BDSM erotica? Then refresh your coffee and take a seat…

Reverie Changing plans didn’t seem to put this Voyageur off…

Bedroom Eyes 28 With Maires and Stephanie exploring their own power exchange, we get a voyeurs ear-view of their play, as Jaime waits sleepily (and nervously) in his bedroom.

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

The Rise of the Penis Plush aka Piemel Knuffel Any interesting news stories happening at the moment? Liz Black found one that tickled her fancy. What do you think?

Writing about writing

Musings and Flashers and Hope, Oh My! As a fellow Pantser (thanks for the new word Ramone) I am so pleased to see this particular blogger back in the game.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Cracking Tits? Or Lumps, Bumps And Flaws? How do you react when a new friend is self depricating? Well, this is what I did with SWL, and five+ years later we’re great friends!

Product reviews

Review of Velociraptor Dildo from Laphwing Who wants Dinosaur porn in their world? I think Oz and Hellga have just sold me this toy based on her Orgasm and his hilarious wordsmithing!

TOY TEST – Celani Nipple Sucker Morgan Destera really got on very well with her new review product.

We-Vibe Ditto+ Mirroring a conversation I had at the weekend, Grace has been having some issues with the WeVibe app.

Sex Work

Large chest for sale! Have you ever heard of Tart Cards? If not, I imagine you’ve seen them before. Find out their history here!

No Data on Prostitution? Just Make It Up! Is it more harmful to state that you have reliable data when in fact you don’t, or acknowledge that you genuinely have no idea.

Evelyn Becomes a Client! Evelyn Vale gives herself (and us) an insight into the world of a client. Even with all her experience as a provider, she was still nervous.

Common Words on Sex Worker Sites AI makes me nervous, having seen some poor attempts at posts over the last year. The Chat GPT experiment, put together by Sex Worker Search, has a certain charm. Even if the results were found to be somewhat bland.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Monogamists get a lil polyamory as a treat on the Ultimatum Having never heard of The Ultimatum, this write up has raised (at least one of my) eyebrows. It sounds like fascinating, car crash TV. Might have to tune in.

People With Penises Can Wear Strap-Ons Too! As the title suggests, Kate Sloan gives us a breakdown of reasons why those with a penis might want to (or be asked to) wear a strap on.

Books and Movies

The Shelves of a Feeble-Minded Book Slut: Part One Love reading? Book slut? I think you might enjoy this post. (I *may* have added to my TBR pile!)

Elust Sex Blogs

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