Make Friends With All The Stars.

Time continued to slip past like water through my fingers. After K had said she wanted to join me and Sir for a scene she had given me her email address so he could contact her. He asked that I gave her his contact details. This way he would know it was her choice to contact him. As time passed he still hadn’t heard from her. We decided that I shouldn’t remind her about it as I didn’t want to make myself into that friends. If she wanted to join us but had lost his details then she could ask; if she had changed her mind it would be better to not push things and pressure her.

So I kept up a search on fabswingers, for a female playmate and a woman to join us.

One of the ladies I had spoken to in my very early days on the site had been nervous about BDSM and exploring her bi side. She had never been with a woman, and had experienced dark times in her first foray into kinky sex. We had chatted for a while, and then parted company. One day I noticed B pop up in my “Last 100 people to view you” page so I thought I would say hello. I discovered that she had been thinking about the scenario again, but would be nervous about blindfolds.

She also wanted to have a social meet first (a new thing for her, but standard practise for me) to see if there was any attraction to me. I would be her first female playmate and she was very nervous. She seemed to be quite interested in the power exchange dynamic between myself and sir, but was clear that she wasn’t submissive at all.

We were arranging the social meet for an early summer’s evening while the boys were with their dad when B surprised me.

She said that she wanted to ask sir if he was happy for us to meet. After checking with him I put her in contact. She was clearly very careful that he would understand she was asking if I would be allowed to meet her, rather than the other way around. 

I would really like to meet with N and have my first Bi experience.
Are you happy to give N permission to meet with me? If after chatting, that is something she would like to do
I look forward to hearing from you

With his blessing we finalised plans to spend an evening getting to know each other. With shared interests we found it easy to make friends online, but would that translate to attraction? Both keen sea swimmers we decided to go to the beach for an evening dip, and then find a cafe for a drink. The swim was wonderful and we laughed in the waves.

With the sea sparkling in our eyes we dried off and dressed on the beach. Over a hot chocolate the conversation continued to flow. We got on so well we decided to stay out for dinner. There was a definite spark. We swapped stories about our experiences on fab and life in general, even sharing a kiss which we both enjoyed. She commented on feeling sexual attraction towards me, and being surprised to be feeling that. I had to agree, about the attraction and the surprise!

We parted ways at the end of the evening, and promised to keep in touch. 

We planned to meet again soon, hopefully to play. She wanted to regain confidence before stepping back into the world of BDSM again. Her experiences with Dominant men had been less than positive, but in the meantime we could both gain confidence with women. Looking back now I see that evening with B as a date. We both do. It was not just my first date with a woman, it was my first date EVER!

An interesting way to make friends…

At this point I had no idea how important this wonderful woman would become to me.

Beautiful, bonkers, and brilliant B.

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